Stars, Stripes, and School Policy: When Values Conflict, Who Should Have the Final Say—Parents or Educators?
At a school board meeting in a town where everyone knows the color of the football field’s bleachers, I watched two neighbors argue about a library book neither of them had read. One was worried her fourth grader would stumble into ideas he wasn’t ready for. The other, a retired social studies teacher, talked about a student he’d once had who found, in a book, the language he needed to ask for help. Both people cared. Both wanted the school to do right by children. And neit
Are We Teaching Kids To Be Proud Of Their Country Or Cautious Of It
The bell had barely stopped ringing when the first flag came out of a backpack, a small nylon triangle on a plastic dowel. A handful of kids cheered, a handful rolled their eyes, and a few watched the door for an administrator. The history teacher, a veteran with the weary reflexes of anyone who has spent a decade refereeing teenage energy, took a breath and did something rare. She asked a question. What does this flag mean to you, and what does it look like to be a good ne
From History to Homefront: Flying the Flag for Heritage and Honor
A flagpole looks simple from a distance, a straight line meeting the sky. Up close, it tells a story. The base shows the grit of the ground where it stands. The halyard wears the memory of a hundred ties and unties. The finial gathers sun and frost like a weathered coin. And the cloth itself, whether crisp or soft from years of hand washing, is a moving illustration of a place and its people. I have spent the better part of twenty years installing flagpoles on farms, cot
When Did Acknowledging God Become Inappropriate in Public Spaces? A First Amendment Inquiry
The fight over public prayer has less to do with piety than with power. Who speaks for the state, who speaks as an individual, and where the line runs between the two. That line has moved over time, shaped by school hallways, football fields, city councils, and courthouse lawns. It is easy to frame the argument as believers versus nonbelievers. It is harder, and more honest, to admit that we are balancing two liberties that sometimes tug in opposite directions: the freedom
Ban the US Flag? What Schools Are Really Teaching About Patriotism
A few years ago, the principal of a midsize high school called me about a brewing fight over flags. A handful of students had started hanging large US flags from their pickup beds in the parking lot. Another group responded by bringing Pride flags to a school spirit day. Within a week, the assistant principal confiscated a thin blue line flag and asked the truck kids to put their flags away, arguing that they blocked visibility. A parent posted the exchange on Facebook, the